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Mr. Wade Garrett

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Let's say you're hypothetically 33 and you're seeing a 23 year old. And she's hot.

Would you consider that cool or sad?

Very mercurial topic I've noticed.
 
depends on the girl. If she's an immature dimwit it will get old soon and you are a cliche. My experience is girls that age are more mature than guys of similar age. I say all good if that is the case.
 
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Depends on whether she has anything going on between her ears. I dated a girl who was four years younger than me who looks-wise was way out of my league, but she was a total airhead and I felt very bad about myself.
 
Not an idiot. Has shit together. Has a legit career.

Just wondering if its considered a sad novelty or a legit score.
 
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If she's solid and you enjoy her company go for it. (Single) Women your age will find you repulsive but that's because they are desperate and will be haters. Godspeed.
 
As a younger dude (college age, just out of college), i resenited it when girls i had an interest in would be dating older men.

At 30, it seems like a gr8 idea.

All about perspective i suppose.
 
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My gf is 9 years younger. It works. But in general I would not go over a 10-year gap.
 
Could see it sucking in certain social setting. None of your friends' significant others will like her and her friends are probably annoying.
 
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Could see it sucking in certain social setting. None of your friends' significant others will like her and her friends are probably annoying.


Haha. These are exactly the two things I had in mind.

Actually do value my friends' wives opinions.
But in the end, f-ck em i guess.
 
It's hard enough hanging out with a girl's friends when they're the same age. I can't imagine having to spend time with her friends and a bunch of 23 year old bros. I suppose it won't make as much of a difference in 5-7 years.
 
Not sad at all. Like even a little. If you're enjoying your time together that's all that matters. Who cares what people think. Any dude sitting back and judging you negativity about this needs a slap and is probably jealous that they couldn't do it.
 
Im shocked that anyone could find a negative side to this-more power to you!
 
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Depends on whether she has anything going on between her ears. I dated a girl who was four years younger than me who looks-wise was way out of my league, but she was a total airhead and I felt very bad about myself.
Were you able to console yourself by banging her? I'm guessing that helped you to take your mind off of things at least temporarily.
 
Other than Maikel Franco, what 23 year old has a legit career?


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2) I was thinking the same thing.
 
If you feel this is an issue that can be defined by members of this board, think your lady friend may be the one that has questions that need to be answered.
 
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If you feel this is an issue that can be defined by members of this board, think your lady friend may be the one that has questions that need to be answered.

First off, you're the biggest loser on this board.

Second, I didn't come on here for validation. I'm going to do whatever I want. I was asking for the opinion of members of this esteemed community because, like I said, I find it to be a very divisive topic.

Some guys think it's incredible, some think pathetic. Am curious to hear why.
 
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I'm on the positive side - incredible not the word I would choose. I almost always went younger, ended up with 5+ younger and it worked very well. 10 doesn't seem bad at all. Problem in the very long run is she'll probably go 25 more years than you though. Hope she's crushing the 401k with the good career going.
 
If you can sustain a decent enough conversation/interests, nothing wrong with it at all. You're not talking 50+ and 23 here. Also if you're still single pushing mid 30's and you're looking for a r'ship you more than likely need to tap into the mid 20's crowd if you wanna find a woman that is attractive, with no kids, and a functioning brain. Otherwise, if you go older, you're gonna be raising someone else's kid(s)....or she's batshit crazy.
 
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Why would this be sad?

As long as she hot - very cool.

Who cares if your friends' g-friends have nothing to talk to her about. -500 they are all annoying as hell anyways.

I, myself, have a lunch date tomorrow with a 22-yr old BJ dealer with braces and I'm older than you. Very cool.
 
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Why would this be sad?

As long as she hot - very cool.

Who cares if your friends' g-friends have nothing to talk to her about. -500 they are all annoying as hell anyways.

I, myself, have a lunch date tomorrow with a 22-yr old BJ dealer with braces and I'm older than you. Very cool.
You love las chicas with the braces.

Do you know when this one turns 23?
 
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Don't really love them, but there is something very nostalgic about them. After the first brace-face I was with after I moved down here, I ran some calculations and concluded that Ronal Reagan was in office the last time I was with a gal with braces.

Tons of women have them here; not sure why they wait until their 20-30's to get them. Probably waiting until they have their own money as I don't think insurance covers them down here.

Negative I do not know when she turns 23. That question won't be asked until later... if there is a later.
 
You only live once. Bang away. Before you know it, you could be this guy.

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Plus side about women in their early 20's is that they're not looking to get married soon. I've found that a lot of women in their late 20's or early 30's try to accelerate relationships or dating quickly and automatically think you're "the one" - I guess that's if you're good "husband material".

I highly recommend younger women over older women any day of the week. You might have to deal with some bullshit but it is less serious bullshit than that of a woman in her 30's.
 
First off, you're the biggest loser on this board.

Second, I didn't come on here for validation. I'm going to do whatever I want. I was asking for the opinion of members of this esteemed community because, like I said, I find it to be a very divisive topic.

Some guys think it's incredible, some think pathetic. Am curious to hear why.

Oh, I see......need an opinion from bench warmers on a divisive topic........and I'm the loser:p
 
Plus side about women in their early 20's is that they're not looking to get married soon. I've found that a lot of women in their late 20's or early 30's try to accelerate relationships or dating quickly and automatically think you're "the one" - I guess that's if you're good "husband material".

I highly recommend younger women over older women any day of the week. You might have to deal with some bullshit but it is less serious bullshit than that of a woman in her 30's.


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For a 26 year old, is 30 too old?

Met organically through a head-to-head corn hole match-up. I've outkicked my coverage a few times (usually at a bar), but usually I play to my own level. This girl is several notches above me, couldn't friggen believe I got the number. She looked around my age, was caught off guard when I did some sleuthing. Worth the headache?

I'm guessing that if she's 30 and that attractive, something must be wrong.
 
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