Warning Long Post!
First off I need give someone credit. A few months ago after we lost to Providence I met up with one of my best childhood friends. He had watched the Providence game, he is a big time UCONN fan. He told me that day that Nova was going to win a National Championship. He said they have the “it” factor, he said he knows what the “it” factor is because he has seen UCONN teams with it. Said you cant describe it, its just there. When he said that I got the chills but I thought maybe he knows it and I just don’t. He texted me on Saturday and said I told you so.
Now on to the weekend journey:
I have always thought karma plays a huge role in life. The minute I stepped on the plane late Friday I had a good feeling about the weekend but as the days progressed things just got better and better.
First off, my plane was a bunch of Nova seniors, they all said the same thing how could we miss this. It made me reflect in 2006 to my journey to Minneapolis and besides the bad turbulence its all I could think about. Right as I landed I get a message from a good friend who I went to Minneapolis with, he was in Japan on vacation. The message was a caption of me, him and Josh Hart from Louisville, that said “Lets do this”. I just got chills and I knew I was in for something special.
To make it even more special I run into the guys my Dad and I hung out with in Detroit, Jimmykernova, DJ, Dave, RB and the whole group. I remember being in Detroit with all you guys the day after the loss and the looks on our face, I knew it would end differently this time around. Just had a feeling.
Then more karma, my Dad, my brother and I sat next to grandparents during Big East who had brought their grand kids from Chicago. As I was leaving the hotel to go to the Oklahoma I bump into them. I preceded to tell them how awesome their grandparents are for bringing them to this, they nod, I wanted them to see a Championship just as much as I wanted to see on myself. I want both the grand kids and the grand parents to share in that special moment. On Monday at the pregame event I saw them again, they were face timing their Mom. Their grandmother signaled for me to come over and I told their Mom how awesome they were and she said they cant stop talking about the boys they met at the Big East. I cant imagine sharing a moment like that with your grand kids but I am so happy they were able to share it.
On to the pregame, as I wandered around the pregame I run into Pete and Laura. Pete and Laura I always consider family. Laura and I worked together in the alumni association chapters. She has helped guide me and has taught me how important Nova is even after you graduate. Pete and Laura bleed blue and white about as much as anybody I know. They brought their son to share in the special experience which is just awesome. When I asked Laura where she was sitting it was right in front of me. I knew that there would be a special moment this weekend, there just had to because if we won they are the exact people I would want to be sitting with.
To keep it going I bump into Mark a friend I took a ride to Boston with in 09. Mark and his Dad who was also there have just as much of a bond as me and my Dad over Nova basketball. We see each other at Nova outings and most of the tourney games. I knew when I saw them early on Saturday we were in for something special, just had that feeling.
We win on Saturday and I get a text from a fraternity brother Emmet wishing me a happy birthday and saying he is coming to Houston. I had not seen Emmet in maybe 8 years. Emmet provided me with the opportunity of a lifetime Senior year when I got to announce the game at UCONN on student radio. When I knew Emmet was coming I had a feeling we were going to do something special.
Then Curtis walks in the door. Curtis lived next to me freshmen year, we caught up, talked about where our lives had taken us, the first thing he asks if my Dad is there, I run him over to my Dad and they hug it out. I told Curtis, this is for you, this is for 05 and 06. He smiled, after the game I saw him again and I could tell he was emotional, we were going nuts!
Then there is my message board family. I met some new friends (Hoops, Trip, Lowry99) during this trip. Caught up with some of my old friends (RB, Dave, ADP, EricW ,Beefer ,Ace, Novaworm, Jimmykernova, DJ,two decks etc). The list goes on and on. You guys are family to me, the minute I saw you guys there knew we were in for something special.
I got to spend my birthday weekend with some of my best friends, what is better than that?nnMy wife on Sunday morning just said “How awesome is this, you wake up in Houston, one game from a Championship and its your birthday”. I got a text from one of my good friends she said “God put the off day on your birthday, now bring us home a Championship”. Again had that feeling
My wife is amazing and I am so lucky she deals with my craziness but she is so happy that she had made this journey and she had so much fun. I got to catch up with friends, roommates, fraternity brothers, it was just awesome.
Then Saturday at 8 PM came. The shot, the moment, the program, the players, the fans.
I first had to hug my wife, we had just received some very good news recently in terms of health, in a way Nova basketball got our mind of all that stuff to share that moment with her was incredible.
Then my brother, my Dad and my Mom. My brother and my Dad have been life long Nova fans. This made so much to the three of us, I have a picture of us all hugging, I have cried to the picture at least 30 times. I cant even describe how it felt to be standing with the two of them after that shot, this is a moment I will pass on to my kids and their kids. I am already working on getting them framed tickets, with the picture.
Then I saw two of my friends who are diehard Nova fans. We held each other and cried. I remember every Friday after brownies going back to our apartment and dissecting the games we had seen. Man was it awesome. We partied it up that night, took shots, had champagne, had a victory cigar with Shane and Frank T, took pictures, I have literally looked at these pictures 100 times and they just bring a smile to my face and tears of joy.
Here is the thing, my emotional ride comes from the fan but the best part of this week was what I saw from our players and their parents. Kris Jenkins Mom had a smile from ear to ear the whole weekend. Mikal Bridges Dad started a Nova Nation chant in the terminal of the arena after the Oklahoma game. The Booths were smiling from ear to ear when they saw the picture of their son in the lobby. The Ochefu’s joined the Lowry 45 B Day pool parties “Lets Go Nova” chant. The Hart’s were about as pumped up as our biggest fans. The Arcs were beaming with the pride and the list goes on and on.
I think what is truly remarkable is how lucky we are to have such good kids with great parents. It truly shows what Jay has built. I am so happy for our guys, their families, Jay and our university.
Will cherish this moment for the rest of my life, thank you!