I think this must be delved into a little bit more...
She a SF lady?
Do u know the kids?
Is she an immigrant?
So many questions.
She used to live in Stockholm and was a bartender at opera bar (sick spot) when an American dude who was traveling rolled in and convinced her to travel with him for the next 2 weeks. Yadda yadda she got married had 3 kids and is now divorced. The ex must be a baller because she doesn't work and her house has a sick guest house where the bride & groom to-be stayed on their most recent visit (brides 40th bday). My buddy surprised his fiancée w a bday party at a vineyard which is where I first met this divorcee. We decided we would coordinate our trip out to Vermont and that's how a mere 4 days after meeting her I found myself with both hands wrapped around her neck literally squeezing the life out of her as she garbled out noises that clearly meant "more."
I'm telling you, these broads - once they have kids - are pretty much down for anything. They've already blown out their o-rings (if a natural birth) so ass play is fully in the mix. Add into that a comfort with asking for whatever they want in bed whereas they may not be comfortable enough to articulate that at an earlier age and baby you got a stew going.