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Taking Questions.... The evening edition / now morning... Divorce 2.0

obriend1

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I'm assuming this won't get much run, but I'm sitting here watching the new Annie with my son and bored out of my mind.

This post was edited on 3/13 8:04 AM by obriend1
 
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Where's your wife?
Of the last 15 people you have texted, how many were from Tinder?
Does your brother think Gonzaga deserves a 1?
 
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Originally posted by NovaNation1188:
Where's your wife?
Of the last 15 people you have texted, how many were from Tinder?
Does your brother think Gonzaga deserves a 1?
Living at her parents house. Right now? Who knows, could be on a Match.com date for all I know. Maybe making cookies.
3
Yes, he thinks Kentucky, Duke, Nova, and Gonzaga deserve the 1's.
 
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If Nova plays Gonzaga in the tourney, what will you wager with your brother?

Church - how often do you go on the scale of Every week or hatched/matched/dispatched?
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Originally posted by tomdudes:
If Nova plays Gonzaga in the tourney, what will you wager with your brother?

Church - how often do you go on the scale of Every week or hatched/matched/dispatched?
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Hmmmm, probably a night out involving steaks, bars, and gentlemen's Clubs.

Church - only on holidays. Currently contemplating going to Church soon though to keep my Mom happy.
 
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What was the dirtiest thing your soon-to-be Ex wife did with you in the sack?
 
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Originally posted by Greg Woodward:
What was the dirtiest thing your soon-to-be Ex wife did with you in the sack?
Nothing that dirty, maybe V to mouth to V? Action on the balls? She was not an "adventurer" in bed.
 
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If you had to give up either coffee or booze, which would you choose?

Best basketball memory from your undergrad time at Nova and post-grad time?
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Originally posted by TooTchuisi:
Hows the cookie business?
She told me today that she is "making only $200 a week but things are picking up". She just signed up to get her real estate license so it will be months before she has a real income.
 
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Originally posted by tomdudes:
If you had to give up either coffee or booze, which would you choose?

Best basketball memory from your undergrad time at Nova and post-grad time?
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Coffee, no doubt. I'd drink energy drinks, 5 hours, or get a script of ADHD meds.

Didn't go to Nova as an undergrad, but my best memory was going to the Nova-Kansas game when Lowry punched Wayne Simien in the nards. The next was the Scottie Reynold's Pitt shot.
 
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ETA on resolution of everything? How much will it cost you on an ongoing basis once divorce is final? Any ramifications from your last taking questions?
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Name the top 5 cities in America you would live
 
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You cross of any bucket list items since the separation?
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Originally posted by TwoDecks:
ETA on resolution of everything? How much will it cost you on an ongoing basis once divorce is final? Any ramifications from your last taking questions?
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75 or so days from now. She was forced to file last time we were in court and we both have agreed to get it done in the 90 day minimum time period. I hold some leverage with it so I'll be able to get this done.

Once it is finalized? Around $700 a month in child support or so. That's down from the original amount they gave her. However the alimony pendente is crushing me.

Nope.
 
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Originally posted by TheDean:
Name the top 5 cities in America you would live
Right now? Or dream cities - i.e. not having a son to worry about?
 
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Originally posted by TwoDecks:
What is alimony pedente?
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Alimony granted during the duration of the divorce. Which is ridiculous and only shows the antiquated laws PA is abiding by.
 
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Got it - so she has no motivation to finalize things and take a "pay cut"...
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Originally posted by obriend1:

Originally posted by TheDean:
Name the top 5 cities in America you would live
Right now? Or dream cities - i.e. not having a son to worry about?
You, with your son, doesn't matter
 
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Originally posted by TwoDecks:
Got it - so she has no motivation to finalize things and take a "pay cut"...
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Correct. Except for the fact that I'm paying the mortgage and multiple CC bills underneath both of our names. I have a good income and she does not. If payments are no longer made due to financial hardship, which I'm currently going through, then credit scores will be damaged. I can rebound quickly though.
 
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Originally posted by TheDean:

Originally posted by obriend1:

Originally posted by TheDean:
Name the top 5 cities in America you would live
Right now? Or dream cities - i.e. not having a son to worry about?
You, with your son, doesn't matter
San Diego, Austin, Sausalito, Philadelphia, and Boston.
 
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Were you having problems in your marriage prior to the shit hitting the fan?

Or was it a complete surprise?

What's her take on the situation?
 
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Any regrets POST separation so far?

Will you have an official "divorce" party?
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Originally posted by Novacatt94:
Were you having problems in your marriage prior to the shit hitting the fan?

Or was it a complete surprise?

What's her take on the situation?
Typical early marriage problems. But now that I look back on it, there were warning signs before we even got married.

It was very surprising at the time. I go to Vegas for work/bachelor party and I come back to her wanting a divorce. She had mentioned it a year before but assumed it was the post-partum and we went to counseling after.

She thinks that some people just don't fit and wanted to find someone who fit her better - but we fit perfectly when we first got married. She's not one to adapt to other people changing and when she changes she expects her partner to change the same way with her.
 
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Originally posted by TwoDecks:
Any regrets POST separation so far?

Will you have an official "divorce" party?
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I regret marrying her on one hand. I think now that I married her because of her pressure and because that was "what I was supposed to do." I don't regret it in total as having my son made it worth it.

Yes. F&&k yes. My friends have already started planning it. The past months have not been easy on me.
 
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Will you ever get married again or have you learned your lesson?
 
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Originally posted by dirtyd:

Will you ever get married again or have you learned your lesson?
Depending. But only if a pre-nup is signed.
 
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how many have you taken down since this ordeal began?
 
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13 - edited to add detail. Most one and done, 4 a few times more, and 1 on a weekly basis.

This post was edited on 3/12 10:32 PM by obriend1
 
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Rank these movies in order of your preference:
80's comedy group
Fast times at ridgemont high
Risky business
Ferris buellers

War genre
Apocalypse now
Platoon
Full metal jacket

Mob genre
Godfather 1 & 2
Goodfellas
Casino
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1) Rank the Rocky's

2) Rank the Die Hard's

3) Ever touched a man's bird?
 
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You're on a road trip and have to stop for fast food. There are no healthy options allowed. If every option is equidistant from the exit ramp, which one are you going to, and what's your food/drink order?
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Originally posted by tomdudes:
Rank these movies in order of your preference:
80's comedy group
Fast times at ridgemont high
Risky business
Ferris buellers

War genre
Apocalypse now
Platoon
Full metal jacket

Mob genre
Godfather 1 & 2
Goodfellas
Casino
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Ferris
Fast Times
Risky

Platoon
Now
FMJ

Godfather 1&2
Goodfellas
Casino
 
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Originally posted by gldendog:
1) Rank the Rocky's

2) Rank the Die Hard's

3) Ever touched a man's bird?
Rocky, Rocky IV, Balboa, Rocky II, Rocky V, Rocky III.

Die Hard, Vengeance, Die Hard 2, A Good Day, Live Free

No. Never had an inclination but to each their own. Odd question to throw into a ranking movies... unless that's a subtle yet obvious question for yourself.
 
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I like a subtle mix of serious and ridiculousness. Speaking of ridiculousness, A Good Day over Live Free? Wow serious, Clark? Good Day was an abortion.
 
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Originally posted by obriend1:
13 - edited to add detail. Most one and done, 4 a few times more, and 1 on a weekly basis.


This post was edited on 3/12 10:32 PM by obriend1
wow nice work. with a stat line like that, coupled with the experience you are going through, why in the hell would you ever get married again?
 
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