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Taking Questions.... The evening edition / now morning... Divorce 2.0

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What types of things could do to your ex to wound her emotionally, but you take the high road?
If you could only do 4 lifting movements for a year, what would you choose?
List your current top footwear selections: athletic, casual, work.
 
This was a bad day to do it due to the BE tourney, but come on guys, don't you have any really good questions about the divorce or my adventures during it?
 
Re: Taking Questions.... The evening edition

In your theoretical shore house purchase how would you prioritize the following:
size of house
proximity to beach
proximity to amenities (groceries, etc)
proximity to social scene (bars, food, town center)
age of house (i.e. 50s shore house vs. new construction)
family-centric town
marina/boating situation
guido to CoPer ratio

Worst fall / injury / sickness that obriend1 jr. has suffered?
Top 3 best things about Delco?
Top 3 worst things about Delco?
 
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Originally posted by NickleDimer:
What types of things could do to your ex to wound her emotionally, but you take the high road?
If you could only do 4 lifting movements for a year, what would you choose?
List your current top footwear selections: athletic, casual, work.
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Solid question solid question....

To be perfectly honest, I've said some things that have been hurtful or said with the intent to hurt after she started verbally going at me. I've called her fat and ugly without her makeup, uneducated trash, etc. Not my proudest moment, I wish I could have been a better person during this but I'm very emotionally damaged right now. I'm completely hurt and angry and those feelings will be lasting a very long time.

I would probably try to sleep with her sister-in-law (her brother's wife), sleep with one of her friends (but that could start a chain reaction although all my friends seriously hate her - to the point where I don't think they'd even hate F her), have my lawyer bring up her adultery in court, and send her some of the pictures I've received or taken of women. But I don't think the pictures would bother her.

Bench press, Dip, Pull Up, and Curls.

Athletic - Nike Cross Trainers and New Balance Minimus running shoes
Casual - wing tip boots by Crevo. I've found they go with anything
Work - Hillsboro dress shoes
 
Describe you ex-wife and her grooming habitsDid it change throughout your time, or was it consistent. Would it change with her mood or how she deterioratedIs tjc crazy
 
What method are you using to meet these girls? Tinder?

Do you tell them about the divorce right away?
 
Re: Taking Questions.... The evening edition


Originally posted by NickleDimer:
In your theoretical shore house purchase how would you prioritize the following:
size of house
proximity to beach
proximity to amenities (groceries, etc)
proximity to social scene (bars, food, town center)
age of house (i.e. 50s shore house vs. new construction)
family-centric town
marina/boating situation
guido to CoPer ratio

Worst fall / injury / sickness that obriend1 jr. has suffered?
Top 3 best things about Delco?
Top 3 worst things about Delco?
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Proximity to beach - I don't mind walking a mile but I don't want to have to drive
Proximity to social scene - don't want to wait for cabs or uber if I don't have to
family centric town - gotta have things to do with my son
size of house - needs to have four bedrooms
guido to CoPer ratio - yeah, I'm from Philadelphia. Enough said.
marina/boating situation - I'm not a boater.
Proximity to amenties - I'll drive to a grocery or liquor store

Honestly, I've got nothing. Seriously, I can't think of anything I like about Delco. Maybe Tavola's at the Springfield Golf Course?
The traffic, lack of anything cultural to do, and how dumpy a lot of it is.
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Originally posted by nardibynature123:
Describe you ex-wife and her grooming habitsDid it change throughout your time, or was it consistent. Would it change with her mood or how she deterioratedIs tjc crazy
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She showers every 2 or 3 days. Puts on makeup once or twice a week - when she would go out with her Mom or friends.Yes, as soon as we moved in it started getting worse. She revealed how she truly was. No, she basically got comfortable and reverted to her true self. She told me the other day, when I called her out for posting pictures of herself (sent to me by friends) of her looking good with makeup on, that when she's in a relationship again she'll stop showering and wearing makeup again. Very f'ing kind of you bamboozling dudes. Good question. Either he's crazy or a master of the long con.

This post was edited on 3/13 12:36 PM by obriend1
 
Re: Taking Questions.... The evening edition

How much butt stuff goes on in the modern dating scene?

Why are the majority of women so damaged? They all can't be abuse victims.
 
Originally posted by Mr. Wade Garrett:
What method are you using to meet these girls? Tinder?

Do you tell them about the divorce right away?
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Mostly. I've heard good things about Match.com and Plenty of Fish but they're definitely women looking for a relationship.

Depends. If I know they have a child or children I'll tell them early on. If I know I'm most likely going to go one and done, then no. No reason to. However, if a girl tells me they've been hurt by an ex then I might drop it to show my "pain and vulnerability" which they tend to want to help with.
 
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Originally posted by Villanova U:
How much butt stuff goes on in the modern dating scene?

Why are the majority of women so damaged? They all can't be abuse victims.
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Shit, I say a fair amount. This seems to be the year of the booty. I've put it in the 2 hole only once but have been 2nd knuckle deep in a few more. I've got no problem going down there if the girl is clean and smells good.

I blame it on the modern era of pornography. The modern day woman is not afraid to embrace their sexuality and get laid when they want to and the way they want it. They also have access to porn and have watched it, learning new things and techniques. We are now in a new golden age of sex.
 
Originally posted by novabubba:
she only showered every 2-3 days?? and you ate that??
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No, she would always shower before sex and she would get right into bed. No makeup or anything. It was ridiculous.
 
Yes, twice. Once for "Allowing a DUI" when I was 18. Didn't know a passenger could get that. It was B.S. and the charge was dropped. Second time for an incident during Irish Weekend and again I had it dropped.

Recommendation by lawyer friends of the family. I wanted as strong of an attorney as I could afford.
 
Originally posted by Mr. Wade Garrett:
Best move on a tinder first date?
There have been a few I'm proud of. Telling girls "That I didn't expect to meet someone like you" works well. I told one girl that I could see "her light" in her eyes - she was big into wavelengths and energy etc. One 21 year old who I knew was into cars, and by into I mean liked "expensive" cars, I put my keys on the table clearly so she could see my Cadillac FOB. Really it is about reading the situation, the woman, and making adjustments when needed.
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Originally posted by Villanova U:
Have you ever had poop on your weiner?
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Luckily no. I was a little worried as the anal was spur of the moment. I've heard horror stories though of girls shitting all over the bed though. Most women don't realize that you better prepare if you're going to do it.
 
What is one hobby you would like to pick up but haven't been able to because of time and/or money?

How often a day do you poop?

What was your college major? Has your college education helped you in any way, or are you considered a liberal artist?

How would you alter our nation's higher education system?
 
Originally posted by Villanova U:
What is one hobby you would like to pick up but haven't been able to because of time and/or money?

How often a day do you poop?

What was your college major? Has your college education helped you in any way, or are you considered a liberal artist?

How would you alter our nation's higher education system?
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Some form of martial arts. I could use an outlet for my aggression and at the same time learn control. Or writing. I've always wanted to write a book but just don't have the time.

Usually once a day. Occasionally twice if I've gone heavy protein and heavy meals. I'm a morning pooper, right before the shower. I usually get naked to poop so I don't like pooping outside of the house if I don't have to. I feel restricted with my pants around my ankles.
 
Originally posted by obriend1:

Originally posted by Villanova U:
What is one hobby you would like to pick up but haven't been able to because of time and/or money?

How often a day do you poop?

What was your college major? Has your college education helped you in any way, or are you considered a liberal artist?

How would you alter our nation's higher education system?
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Some form of martial arts. I could use an outlet for my aggression and at the same time learn control. Or writing. I've always wanted to write a book but just don't have the time.

Usually once a day. Occasionally twice if I've gone heavy protein and heavy meals. I'm a morning pooper, right before the shower. I usually get naked to poop so I don't like pooping outside of the house if I don't have to. I feel restricted with my pants around my ankles.
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Why didn't you answer my remaining questions?
 
How often do you work out or exercise? What is your general routine? (no need to be super explicit here)

Have you ever punched another human in the face?

Do you know what an "ops role" is?
 
Sorry, missed them.

Marketing. I would say it has but to be honest I think that high education needs to adjust to fit with modern business and times. R programming should be a must for most majors. Customer Service should be a must. Phone apps should be another.
 
3-4 times a week. Usually some light cardio to get the heart rate up then go into lifting then cardio again if I have the time. I've been lifting to gain weight recently so I've made sure I've kept the cardio up to keep cutting fat.

Oh yeah, several times in my youth. I look a lot younger than my age and have glasses so I guess you could say I was an easy target in bars and early on in college. But I can scrap and people then realized it. One kid pulled a knife on me in college and I broke the bottle that I was carrying and was ready to knife fight him MJ's Bad style. I didn't even realize that when I broke it part of the bottle neck broke in my hand and cut me badly until afterwards.

I've been sliced with a knife once, hit with a bat once, and robbed at gun point a few times. When a single person puts their fists up I don't get scared. Now if it is a group? Yeah, getting rolled on is not fun and scary.

Isn't an Ops Role an operations engineer?
 
Yes. I can actually do that now. I'll send over some good photos and screenshots of Tinder convos.
What's the rule on posting pictures of butt shots on here - if they're wearing panties is it ok??
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Originally posted by TMJ45:
Can you give a quick synopsis of your breakup? I missed it somehow.
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Quick summary: started having some issues two Junes ago. Wife became more and more distant, stopped doing anything positive for out relationship or me, and then in October I watched a live convo on Facebook between her and an ex. I then found out that she had been talking to other men over the period of our marriage. I had caught her before but I didn't want to admit it and she said that it was nothing. After I call her out on it she proceeds to tell me she wants to separate. I think it is a quick reaction and after a day of talking about it it kind of blows over. I go to Las Vegas knowing that things are falling apart for work and a bachelor party. The day after I get back I'm supposed to spend with her and she proceeds to tell me she wants to separate and get divorced. However, she wanted to stay in the house until "after the holidays" to keep things nice for our son. Basically she was just being lazy and her parents wouldn't let her move in right away.

Things got incredibly bad between us during that time period. I became angrier and angrier that I was paying for her life and she was just waiting to move out - basically leaching off of me. She took my son on Thanksgiving and wouldn't let me take him to my family's in CT so I spent Thanksgiving by myself. We would avoid each other for the most part but she was texting other men and on Match.com so I got really angry and upset. It got to the point where she slapped me in the face in front of our son and I called the cops. She didn't move out until the second week in January.
 
If you owned a boat, what would you name it? Not some huge yacht, but just a regular boat. Maybe a 24' bow rider.
 
Originally posted by obriend1:

Originally posted by TMJ45:
Can you give a quick synopsis of your breakup? I missed it somehow.
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Quick summary: started having some issues two Junes ago. Wife became more and more distant, stopped doing anything positive for out relationship or me, and then in October I watched a live convo on Facebook between her and an ex. I then found out that she had been talking to other men over the period of our marriage. I had caught her before but I didn't want to admit it and she said that it was nothing. After I call her out on it she proceeds to tell me she wants to separate. I think it is a quick reaction and after a day of talking about it it kind of blows over. I go to Las Vegas knowing that things are falling apart for work and a bachelor party. The day after I get back I'm supposed to spend with her and she proceeds to tell me she wants to separate and get divorced. However, she wanted to stay in the house until "after the holidays" to keep things nice for our son. Basically she was just being lazy and her parents wouldn't let her move in right away.

Things got incredibly bad between us during that time period. I became angrier and angrier that I was paying for her life and she was just waiting to move out - basically leaching off of me. She took my son on Thanksgiving and wouldn't let me take him to my family's in CT so I spent Thanksgiving by myself. We would avoid each other for the most part but she was texting other men and on Match.com so I got really angry and upset. It got to the point where she slapped me in the face in front of our son and I called the cops. She didn't move out until the second week in January.
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If your wife was on a message board filled with females she "knew" and was asked to provide "a quick synopsis of your breakup", how would it go?
 
I may have asked this in the last TQ, but what is your golf handicap?

Would you have LizReed do a video analysis of your swing?

When you are leaving a party, do you say goodbye to people or just walk out?

What does your son want to be when he grows up? What do you want him to be?

The line for tonight's game is VU -9. Is that line telling you something?
 
Originally posted by RSTRICK30:

Originally posted by obriend1:

Originally posted by TMJ45:
Can you give a quick synopsis of your breakup? I missed it somehow.
Posted from Rivals Mobile
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Quick summary: started having some issues two Junes ago. Wife became more and more distant, stopped doing anything positive for out relationship or me, and then in October I watched a live convo on Facebook between her and an ex. I then found out that she had been talking to other men over the period of our marriage. I had caught her before but I didn't want to admit it and she said that it was nothing. After I call her out on it she proceeds to tell me she wants to separate. I think it is a quick reaction and after a day of talking about it it kind of blows over. I go to Las Vegas knowing that things are falling apart for work and a bachelor party. The day after I get back I'm supposed to spend with her and she proceeds to tell me she wants to separate and get divorced. However, she wanted to stay in the house until "after the holidays" to keep things nice for our son. Basically she was just being lazy and her parents wouldn't let her move in right away.

Things got incredibly bad between us during that time period. I became angrier and angrier that I was paying for her life and she was just waiting to move out - basically leaching off of me. She took my son on Thanksgiving and wouldn't let me take him to my family's in CT so I spent Thanksgiving by myself. We would avoid each other for the most part but she was texting other men and on Match.com so I got really angry and upset. It got to the point where she slapped me in the face in front of our son and I called the cops. She didn't move out until the second week in January.
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If your wife was on a message board filled with females she "knew" and was asked to provide "a quick synopsis of your breakup", how would it go?
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I would say pretty similar. She's told me and been open that she just doesn't connect with me and that I "don't light a fire in her and that she doesn't for me." She married me for the wrong reasons and I guess thought my personality would change.

Edit - however she is telling people that I'm crazy and that I would go out drinking all the time and not tell her where I was. When the reality is that I went out maybe once every 6 weeks, would crash at my friend's places in Jersey so I wouldn't have to drive 45 minutes drunk, and she would know where I was staying. The crazy part is because she is super good at getting under people's skins and is very condescending. So whenever we would have a conversation she would keep her voice calm and just dig at me, so I've yelled and she calls me being emotional crazy. She's an ice queen, which is the reason why she has approximately 3 friends and her own brother calls her a heartless bitch.
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Originally posted by Villanova U:
I may have asked this in the last TQ, but what is your golf handicap?

Would you have LizReed do a video analysis of your swing?

When you are leaving a party, do you say goodbye to people or just walk out?

What does your son want to be when he grows up? What do you want him to be?

The line for tonight's game is VU -9. Is that line telling you something?
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I don't play. I'll hit at the range, but haven't played 18 in years. I've been meaning to pick it up again for business purposes though.

Sure.

Depends on the party. If it is packed I'll say bye to a select few and walk out. I've been known to do the Irish Goodbye at bars.

He's only 3, so he wants to be a superhero. I want him to be a superhero too.

It's telling me to bet Nova again.
 
Originally posted by Villanova U:
What single body part is the most important for you to find a woman attractive?
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Eyes and face. I can't deal with a woman with a hot body but a busted face for long. Body part though, I'm a legs and ass man.
 
How do you think you will die?

How old do you think you will be when you die?

Do you like blueberries cooked in things like pancakes or muffins?


"F", Marry, Kill.......Elizabeth Hurley, Madonna, and JLo
 
How do you deal with the anger that you have? Has it changed over time?

What is the best children's tv show/movie out there today?

Over/Under/Properly:
honesty
ginger ale
ATM
strong lats
pro golf
casual golf
casual dress
makeup
tequila
ISIS
taking a bath
 
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